when they start going out a lot more with friends and staying late. My ds R is 15 1/2(can't forget the 1/2 part) and is not much of a social guy. But this morning in seminary some of the boys invited him over to a "hangout". Now that is something since most of the time they tend to "forget" him and then he finds out later on during the week by an "oops" of the mouth. Now the boy, whose house he's at, is a very nice boy. His parents are very nice and his little sister, who is my dd N's age are friends. So tonight he's there watching movies and just hanging. Something he's not really into, but glad that his friends remembered to invite him.